The ultimate balancing act

Being a father is a constant balancing act—between protecting them and letting them go.

From the moment your child is born, your instinct is to protect them from everything: scraped knees, broken hearts, disappointment. You want to be their fortress, their safety net.

But as they grow, you realize that love isn’t just about protection - it’s about trust. Trusting them to climb higher, try harder, and sometimes fall.

Letting go doesn’t mean you stop caring; it means you’re giving them the freedom to discover their strength, to discover who they are.

It’s not easy, but it’s how they learn to crawl, then walk, then run, then fly. And when they do, you’re still there - watching, cheering, and ready to catch them if they need you.

Frank Tarczynski

Documenting my journey from full-time educator to full-time screenwriter.

https://ImFrank.blog
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